My Darling Nellie Gray is another tune that I first heard at the Gambler’s Draw contest at the American Heritage Music Festival in Grove, OK. As I recall, somebody else got out on the tune, and after the contest, I had Junior Marriott teach me the tune.
He said that the first part is basically Faded Love, and that the second part was similar. He was right about the similarities between Faded Love and Nellie Gray, but what I really wonder is which tune came first.
Let’s find out… According to Fiddler’s Companion Nelly Gray came first, and I would wager that Faded Love was copied from it – whether intentionally or not.
I just got a great email comment on this topic from FTAD Subscriber (and Fiddler) Roger Harmon
Hello Vi,
I don’t know if you’ll remember me, but we’ve jammed a few times together at Jana Jae’s in Grove Oklahoma. I just wanted to respond to your story about Darling Nellie Gray, and give you a little tid bit you might find interesting. Years ago I used to have a friend named Al Strickland who played keyboard for Bob Wells. After the last reunion performance of the Texas Playboys at the Tulsa Civic Center, I was invited to an after party at the bands Hotel. Some of us got to talking about Al getting the credit for having written Faded Love. His answer was that it was a take off on on an old Civil War Ballad called Darlin Nellie Gray, that everyone used to know when he was a boy. He said he and Bob Wells changed the tune around a little bit to fit the new lyrics that he and Bob put to the tune, and Faded Love was born. I don’t know if changing the tune and writing new lyrics make it their song or not, but it eventually became the States official song. And I sort of feel like Faded Love can stand on its own.
All the best, Roger Harmon
ps. Keep up the good work, I love the Fiddle Tune of the day.
Nelly Gray according to Fiddler’s Companion
NELLY GRAY. American, “Sand Jig” (4/4 time). G Major. Standard tuning. AABB. Composed in 1856 by Ohio minister and schoolteacher Benjamin Russell Hanby as “Darling Nellie Gray,” about a slave who is sold away from her beloved to work on a plantation in Geogia. The popular song fuelled abolitionist sympathies. It was variously arranged in traidition as an air, stage vehicle (for a sand jig, a solo dance on a sanded stage), and a play party game. 78RPM-era recordings were numerous, by early country music stars that included the Stanley Trio (1924), Riley Puckett (1924), Vernon Dalhart (1925), Al Hopkins (1927) an d Carson Robison (1930). Source for notated version: Absie Morrison (1875-1964, Sercy County, Atkansas) [Beisswenger & McCann]. Beisswenger & McCann (Ozark Fiddle Music), 2008; pg. 104. Kerr (Merry Melodies), vol. 2; No. 403, pg. 45.
Pat Schuhmann Lemmon says
Gesundheit!
Vi Wickam says
Thanks, Pat!
Deborah Dea Cushman-Johnson says
God Bless you. LOL As soon as you started playing that, I thought "hmm, that sounds like Faded Love." And then I read everything. Great story.
Nathan Bingham says
Carson Robison sings this song on Blue River Train & Other Cowboy & Country Songs. It's a crooners delight. Johnny Gimble has another great version of this and played it on Garrison Keilers "Prairie Home Companion" My commute to work is 35 to 40 minutes one way and I've learned this tune on the harmonica during that drive. Your version is wonderful and very soulful. This song reminds me so much of Aura Lee. Thanx for posting it.
Vi Wickam says
It's one of my favorite ballads that I have learned as of late. I don't know if you are aware, but my Grandma's great uncle, George R. Poulton wrote the music to Aura Lee. It's one of my favorites as well.
Michael Friedman says
Lovely musical performance !
Vi Wickam says
Thanks, Michael.
Francis Meador says
Very pretty. I especially liked your double stops around 2:40. Thank you!
Rella says
I really enjoy reading the history behind these fiddle tunes. It gives the song so much more meaning. Your fiddle was crying for Nellie Gray this morning.
Vi Wickam says
It’s a beautiful and sad song. I’m glad you are enjoying the history and stories behind the tunes. They definitely add to the emotional punch. 😉
Thanks,
Vi